plusOneAbout $16
Beginner · External bullet
plusOne Vibrating Bullet
Curious, but not ready for a three-digit commitment? Small, simple, and one-button easy. A very reasonable place to start the conversation.
Explore at plusOne ↗Between the Sheets
The conversations we have after midnight.
The spicier side of Unfiltered, where we talk about sex, intimacy, desire, dating, confidence, and all the things people are usually too embarrassed to bring up at brunch.
Honest. Playful. Sometimes a little inappropriate. Always unfiltered.
For grown-ups who’d rather talk about it than pretend they don’t think about it.
Between the Sheets / 18+ collectionThe Unfiltered
Toy Box.Pleasure. Curiosity. Zero judgment.A little curiosity looks good on you. Discover the toys we talk about on the podcast, from your first “maybe” to your next little luxury.Open the Toy BoxClose the Toy Box
Welcome to the good drawerWe're adults. We're friends.
We're adults. We're friends.
We can talk about this.
First toy? New chapter? Just having a look? Pull up a chair. This is the podcast shelf for exploring what interests you, at your own pace and in your own budget. No pressure to buy. Absolutely no embarrassment required.
New Here? Start Here
Curiosity without the big commitment. Simple controls, approachable prices, and a little room to discover.
maudeAbout $52
Beginner · External vibrator
Maude Vibe
Three speeds. One button. No Bluetooth engineering degree required. This is the uncomplicated little introduction for anyone wondering where to begin.
Explore at maude ↗Jules' Picks
The podcast edit: all seven recommendations from our September 22 Toy Box debut. Pick the mood that feels like you.
Solo Night
Your time. Your pace. Your preferences. Getting to know what you like does not require an audience.
DameAbout $103
Solo · Flexible palm vibrator
Dame Pom
For the night that belongs entirely to you. A soft, flexible shape that fits in your palm, without turning your downtime into a complicated project.
Explore at Dame ↗Better Together
Bring curiosity into the conversation. A toy can be an invitation to explore something together.
DameAbout $129
Couples · Hands-free wearable
Dame Eva
A little extra help can be a very good thing. This hands-free option earns a spot for couples who want to explore together; fit is personal, so leave room to experiment.
Explore at Dame ↗We-VibeAbout $199
Couples · App + remote control
We-Vibe Chorus
For the couple ready to make curiosity a joint project. Adjustable fit and shared controls give you something new to talk about. Keep the conversation as important as the gadget.
Explore at We-Vibe ↗Give Them the Controls
For shared controls and a little anticipation. App-connected options can also offer ways to connect across the distance.
We-VibeAbout $149
Wearable · App + remote control
We-Vibe Moxie+
A playful pick when you both want to hand over the controls. Keep it private, agree on the plan, and let the person wearing it call the shots.
Explore at We-Vibe ↗Treat Yourself
A little luxury, if that's your mood. Spending more is a choice, never a graduation requirement.
We-VibeAbout $159
Premium · Air-pulse sensation
We-Vibe Melt 2
Curious about a different kind of sensation? This air-pulse option is the little luxury on the shelf. A splurge is optional; your curiosity does not have a minimum spend.
Explore at We-Vibe ↗Approximate US prices, checked September 19, 2026. Prices, offers, and availability can change; follow each official brand link for current details. These are podcast recommendations, not a claim that Jules has personally tested every product.
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“How do I bring it up?” “Where do I even start?” That question in your head? It belongs here. Send it through our existing anonymous story and question form. Leave out your email if you'd rather, and you choose whether it can be shared.
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Real talk, in print
September 20, 2026 · 7 min read
Can We Talk About the Part After Sex?
Because apparently nobody knows what they're supposed to do then either.
July 19, 2026
When Social Media Becomes the Third Person in Your Relationship
How to find your way back to each other in a world that’s constantly fighting for your attention.
June 30, 2026 · 7 min read
When Did We Stop Flirting With the People We Chose?
By Jules Markley — on micro-flirting, comfort, and why the happiest couples never stop dating each other.
Becoming Her · July 2, 2026 · 3 min read
The woman you’re looking for isn’t someone new. She’s the version of you you’ve been missing.
By Jules Markley — on the quiet ways we lose ourselves, and the small, honest way back.
Relationships · June 30, 2026 · 5 min read
The Slowest Heartbreak Doesn’t Come With Goodbye
By Jules Markley — on the quiet kind of heartbreak that happens while a relationship is still technically alive.
Red Flag Energy · June 12, 2025 · 2 min read
He Won’t Post You But He’s Always Liking Her Pics
By Jules Markley — on being kept invisible online while he shows up for everyone else.
Dating · June 21, 2025 · 2 min read
When Did We Start Calling the Bare Minimum… a Green Flag
By Jules Markley — on mistaking basic decency for deep compatibility, and clapping for crumbs.
◆ The Confessional
Tell us the thing you’d NEVER put on your Instagram.
Completely anonymous adult confessions about sex, dating, relationships, fantasies, awkward moments, desire, and other mature topics. Selected submissions may be published anonymously with a short Jules’ Reaction response. This is an adults-only space — keep it appropriate for a mature audience.
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◆ The After Dark File
Jules breaks it down
A recurring feature where Jules takes a real, anonymous adult situation and breaks it down — and you get to weigh in yourself.
The Situation
“My partner says everything is fine, but we haven’t had sex in months. When I bring it up, he tells me I’m making it a bigger deal than it is. Am I asking for too much?”
Jules’ Take
“Girl. No.
Wanting physical intimacy in your relationship doesn’t make you needy, dramatic, or obsessed with sex. But there’s a bigger question hiding underneath this: what happens when one person’s needs become something the other person refuses to discuss?”
Red Flag or Complicated?
What Would You Do?
◆ The Unfiltered Bedroom Poll
How often do you actually want sex?
◆ The Question You’re Too Embarrassed to Ask
“What’s the sex question you’ve always wanted to ask but were too embarrassed to Google?”
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